I am going to talk about sex....sooooo...if you are my dad or are uncomfortable with the knowledge that I know what sex is - then please stop here.

I was listening to the radio this morning and they were having a conversation about taking the love out of sex. They say this would solve everyone's problems because men don't want it there anyway and women would have time for sex because it would be less time consuming (how romantic). What does that mean exactly? I can't be the only person who is not sure what the radio host was suggesting. Take the love out of sex? So ... we should have sex with anyone...anything? We should put it on our "To Do" list and hope to meet someone cute at some point during the day?
Is this really the attidue a majority of people have?

4 people who called in have had sex with more than 30 people!!! 30!! I'm not trying to be rude but that makes me rethink shaking hands with people I don't know.

Now - I know not many people save sex for marriage anymore (which is sad in itself because they are missing out on something great) and I'm not talking about people having sex in a relationship with someone...I'm talking about this class of people - apparently a large class that is having sex with random people they have no feelings for at all. I guess I was under the impression that people were having sex because they love someone - or at least think they do. This idea of making all sex casual and "taking the love out" is unbelieably demeaning to me. I feel absolutely like an object when I hear peopole talking like that. Have women worked this hard for this many years to be able to vote, go to work, speak up, sit on the couch with a glass of wine while their husband does the dishes - to now being a man's private beck and call girl? No feelings. No sharing. No attatchment. But satisfaction garunteed.

Do you know what the worst part of it all is? Because at the end the day I have made my choices and I have my morals in place. I can hear this garbage all day long and I know that it is wrong. BUT the worst part is - these adults who are "taking the love out of sex" - who are having sex with 5, 10, 20, 1000 people...are going to teach their children that this is what sex is. And their children - who will not know anything different - are going to be sitting right next to Parker in school.